有一段比较有针对性。这种事在美国是相当的普遍。现在今日中国也不少吧。
不过美国人比较不看重那中学甜心是成功人士还是 gas station clerk.
Question
I have been dreaming about my high school sweetheart lately. I am married, with a child, but I never got over him. To make matters worse, I know that he still thinks about me. I love my husband, but I have to know: Should I risk my marriage on a possibility or stick with a sure bet?
-- Confused
Dear Confused,
We never get over our high school sweethearts. Back then, passions were strong, attachments pure, and lives uncomplicated, and those earliest loves remain forever young. Add a few years, a few disappointments, a few kids, and a few gray hairs, and those times seem almost unbearably sweet. The best way to have that love forever is by remembering it as it was. The best way to lose it would be to reconstruct that time of your life. Listen, you love your husband-so love your husband! Count your blessings. Let the past go.
