发现目标后, 略事寒喧, 递上名片(明骗),如对方不自动提供CONTACT INFO, 可介绍她感兴趣的文章(so u need to know some good articles she does not know, which takes TIME! More importantly, u need to know what articles might interest her and what articles she might not have read, which would take u MUCH MORE TIME -- This is why you have to have 闲), if she is indeed interested, E-MAIL给她, 于是E-MAIL到手. 要电话TOO AGGRESSIVE, 也贬低了自己, losing upper hand in the very beginning.
如当夜或次日即联络她, 甚至邀请晚餐之类, 除非潘安石崇, 否则必然出局.
老中则石沉大海至少一周, 此期间如她主动联系, he then got THE upper hand.
if not, 找一个无懈可击的借口请几个人一起聚会, 务必投其所好. 之所以不是一对一, 是避免她因缺乏安全感而拒绝.
