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头衔: 海归准将 声望: 博导 性别: 年龄: 44 加入时间: 2006/05/07 文章: 996 来自: Venus 海归分: 170826
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作者:阿修罗 在 海归茶馆 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
有人说 “婚姻是男人对女人最大的承诺”,I believe so.
如果时光倒流十年,我还是那个爱作梦的小女孩,我会成为世界最幸福的新娘。
十年弹指一挥间,走过了千山万水,对婚姻的恐惧却日益剧增。。。。。而今我变成了谈婚色变的人。
很多年来,一直将男人排斥在我的社交圈和私人空间之外,他在经历我的百般刁难后依然初衷不改,以极大的包容力等待我在感情上的 ready.Finally I could somehow accept him into my life. When I introduced him to my family,everything moved very smoothly and naturally. Uncle told me afterwards:"We like your young man very much. He seems very nice....." My intuition also tells me he is the one.
Since last couple months, he began to give me indications of marriage and tried to test me whether I love the Tiffany setting solitare engagement diamond ring. It definitely is a gorgeous diamond ring of my dream and Tiffany is my favorite brand and style. Unfortunately, besides the panic of marriage, I rarely own any enthusiasm and passion anout engagement and marriage. I feel so panic + depressed over these weeks that I wanna hide somewhere myself to cry(loudly +saddly) and escape from the reality. I heard of others have the pre-marriage panic, but I even wore the pre-engagement panic.
I wonder is there something wrong me? why do I feel so panic ?! Did you ever suffer the similar depressions right before engagement or marriage ?!
作者:阿修罗 在 海归茶馆 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
上一次由阿修罗于2006-10-10 周二, 12:52修改,总共修改了2次
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[讨论]你有婚姻恐惧症吗? -- 阿修罗 - (1206 Byte) 2006-10-10 周二, 02:25 (2300 reads) - 10年前? -- wiser56 - (30 Byte) 2006-10-10 周二, 02:36 (268 reads)
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