You are a smart guy with very clear logic. I can feel that your words are from a deep consideration, not similar to some of our Chinese friends who like to shout something without thinking...
The following point touched me very much, I belong to this group, so I am considering boing back to China (or Asia).
3. 父母身体欠安的的朋友们，......一个人彻底离开了和睦的家庭也就在一生中失败了一半
